“Mr. Jones” Was Always a Warning: Inside Counting Crows: Have You Seen Me Lately?
- Morgan Ross
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Reel Perspectives
December 22, 2025
HBO’s Music Box documentary turns Counting Crows’ breakout hit into a meditation on visibility, depression, and survival.
Have you caught the latest documentary from HBO’s Music Box series spotlighting San Francisco’s own Counting Crows? Directed by Amy Scott, Counting Crows: Have You Seen Me Lately? offers an intimate portrait of more than three decades of success, setbacks, and satellites—and finally answers the lingering question of who, exactly, Adam Duritz was warning us about in 1993’s “Mr. Jones.”
Released on December 18, 2025, the feature-length documentary traces the band’s rapid ascent following their debut album, August and Everything After, and the creative pressure cooker that produced Recovering the Satellites. While the music resonated deeply—its lyrics capturing hidden struggles and the quiet determination to make it through another day—the film makes one thing clear: fame didn’t bring Duritz clarity or peace. It just amplified everything he was already carrying.
Formed in San Francisco in 1991 by Duritz and producer-guitarist David Bryson, the band’s rise was swift and overwhelming. After a Geffen Records bidding war, their debut album shot into the Billboard 200’s top five. “Mr. Jones” exploded globally, and a performance on Saturday Night Live sent the song rocketing 40 spots up the charts.
With that visibility came scrutiny—and parody.
In retrospect, “Mr. Jones” truly plays like a prophecy. What once sounded like playful ambition reveals itself as an early articulation of the emptiness fame can’t fill—a tension Duritz would spend decades trying to reconcile.
Duritz speaks candidly about his long battle with depersonalization-derealization disorder, a dissociative condition that makes the world feel unreal or dreamlike. He reflects on how his dreadlocks became both an extension of identity and a public punchline, admitting that wearing them made him feel more himself—even as they made him impossible to disappear. Looking back at the band’s black-and-white Rolling Stone magazine cover from 1994, he acknowledges the exhaustion of being frozen as an image rather than allowed to evolve as a person.
The film also features reflections from close friend Mary-Louise Parker, whose presence underscores how intertwined Duritz’s personal and creative lives became once the band crossed into the cultural mainstream.
Adjusting to that fame, Duritz explained:
“It’s like you wake up one morning on Mars, you know? It takes a little while to get used to gravity.”
The film doesn’t shy away from harsher moments. Duritz recalls a fan once telling him, “Man, you’re so lucky because you guys are so terrible.”
The moment lingers longer than the insult itself.
Former band members describe the strain of being managed by Duritz, with even the frontman admitting he made their lives miserable through micromanagement. As one member bluntly summarized, the goal became getting “Adam to love us.” Admirers, including Chris Martin, contextualize Duritz’s kinetic performances, with Martin memorably describing his dancing as “a free spirit flying.”
In the present, Duritz reflects, “I used to have nothing in my life but my music.” Now, he’s found purpose, inspiration, and is accidentally in love with filmmaker Zoe Mintz after the two met on Tinder.
Still, the emotional throughline remains unchanged. Duritz’s work has always resonated because it captured “how uncool he felt”—a sentiment many listeners recognized long before the language for mental health went mainstream. In an era where vulnerability is often branded before it’s understood, Have You Seen Me Lately? feels refreshingly uninterested in performance.
We close on Duritz reflecting on the community his music and Counting Crows created:
“It is a brotherhood and sisterhood of strange people that I have this thing in common with. We take the stuff that goes on in our lives, and we make it into these weird things that rhyme as a way of explaining what we’re going through.”
Have You Seen Me Lately? succeeds most when it lets that vulnerability speak—less as mythology, more as survival. In the years since, Duritz and Counting Crows have continued making music—not as a reinvention, but as proof that endurance itself can be a creative act.
🎧 Behind the Music 🎧
Director Amy Scott approaches Counting Crows: Have You Seen Me Lately? with a restraint that serves the material rather than overwhelming it. Known as well for Melissa Etheridge: I'm Not Broken, Scott brings a similar sensitivity here—favoring space and reflection over spectacle. Her direction allows Adam Duritz’s vulnerability, and the band’s fractures, to unfold without editorializing, keeping the film grounded even when the subject matter risks tipping into mythology.
🎶 Reel Perspectives Music Box Rating: 9 out of 10 Counting Crows 🎶
A deeply resonant and emotionally generous documentary that rewards both longtime fans and latecomers. Have You Seen Me Lately? gains power through Adam Duritz’s openness about depression and dissociation, offering a rare honesty that feels especially meaningful for viewers who recognize those struggles in themselves. For those of us who grew up hearing Counting Crows on the radio without knowing the story behind the songs, the film reframes familiar music with overdue context—and turns nostalgia into understanding.
👂 What’s Next on the Playlist? 👂
Next up in HBO’s Music Box lineup is Happy And You Know It, premiering December 25. Directed by Penny Lane, the film takes a joyful and unexpectedly thoughtful dive into the world of toddler pop—examining why children’s music is so relentlessly catchy, how it can be deeply meaningful, and how AI is beginning to shape the sound of early childhood playlists.
Featuring appearances from The Wiggles, Laurie Berkner, and other musicians, the documentary promises a tonal pivot from the weight of fame to the mechanics of joy. If Have You Seen Me Lately? explores the cost of being seen, Happy And You Know It looks poised to ask a different question entirely: why music reaches us before we even have the words to explain it.
"Counting Crows: Have You Seen Me Lately? " is available now on HBO and HBO MAX.